ME
6'1".ENTJ. Successful, goal driven, take charge real estate developer. Laid back, works out, enjoys luxury, adventuring, construction, being social, life experiences, intellectual conversation & mentoring. Education Reform/Advocacy. Affectionately Looking for my Queen. Let's have an adventure.
PREFERENCES/GUIDELINES, AS A STARTING POINT
I appreciate feminine energy to sync / balance with my masculine energy.
TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP I ENVISION
WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:
WHAT I BRING / BENEFITS:
COMMUNICATION
I am looking for mutually engaging intellectual conversation. With someone who can engage in a back and forth conversation. Someone who does not just rely on me to carry on every single conversation and interaction. If conflict occurs, someone who can handle conflict and compromise, like a partner. I appreciate those who do not assume or react, but instead discuss professionally/politely.
COMMUNICATION - TEXT/EMAIL/PHONE:
I enjoy the random casual text and talking on the phone whenever is do-able for us both. I do like to talk by phone more than texting. In the near term I may not be immediately responsive, once we are more established, I commit to being more rapidly responsive. I'm busy but for the right person, I'll make the time.
AVAILABILITY/INTRODUCTIONS
Preference is to talk by phone first, then we meet and see if the chemistry is there. First meeting will be casual-- coffee/tea or a drink.
As a busy executive, I may not respond right away however once I am able to I will respond.
DISTANCE
I am not concerned about distance. I'll drive the distance for the right person. I am not one to let distance keep me from someone great.
PACE
Looking to take things slow and comfortable, for all parties.
BASICS
Home: Irvine, CA
Height: 6'1"
Hair: Black
Eyes: Brown
Highest Level of Education: Bachelors Degree
Political Orientation: Moderate/Independent thinker
Religion: Not a regular church goer, however I follow the ethics & morality of Christianity.
Celebrity Crush: Staci Cole, Pamela Anderson,
METRICS
My friends describe me as ambitious, relentless, compassionate.
Strengths Finders describes me as Command, Ideation, Strategic, Duty, & Responsibility.
DISC profile describes me as Creative, Dominant
Myers Briggs type is ENTJ: Extraversion, Intuition, Thinking, Judging.
My primary Love Languages are physical touch, then quality time, then words of appreciation.
KIDS
Divorced, with 2 daughters (8 & 6) I share custody/visitation with. I have them every other weekend. The kids live primarily with their mother (for ease of schooling, etc).
CAREER
For approximately 20 years, I have worked in real estate investment & development-- designing & building new home communities, architecture, parks, street names, etc.
TRAITS
CAUSES/PHILANTHROPY/VENTURE PHILANTHROPY
INTERESTS
LIKES/FAVORITES
FAVORITE THINGS TO TALK ABOUT
My WHY?
DOES NOT LIKE
POTENTIAL SHORTCOMINGS
DIMENSIONS
VALUES
I firmly believe that it's important to try to understand different sides of a subject. I also believe it is important to give the benefit of the doubt and not to judge or draw conclusions, based on your own life, because you dont know what someone else is going through. My values & ethics are based in Christianity and chivalry.
SEXUALITY
I am a very affectionate & sexual person. I may be upfront so just letting you know. However, if I should ever be too affectionate or sexual for you, at any given time, just let me know and I will respect your boundaries. And, just like anyone else, I want to be with someone who desires me as much or more than I do them and shows it.
PERSONA'S
Always please be yourself. We are all imperfect. The only things that push me away are rudeness, total lack of manners and consistent lateness. I recognize people have bad days, I cut slack and give benefit of the doubt. I ask the same in return.
I dont play games. I dont scheme out my calls, actions or emails. I'm straight up. And I am honest about how I feel. Feelings are important. Both of ours.
As to my behavior--- I act with chivalry because I feel it is important to demonstrate respect in that way but also as a role model for my children and those I mentor.
CONFLICT
Conflict or arguments are a natural part of living. I do not leave when the going gets tough or if there is conflict, I work through it. I'm here to stay. And I'm looking for a partner that can do the same. If/when a conflict arise, just tell me. We can politely/respectfully talk it out. I might be wrong or there might be a miscommunication. It's all good.
CRITICISM
If I ever do anything to offend or anything you disagree with, I just ask that it be handled with patience, with the benefit of the doubt and with professionalism. I am open to any criticism or guidance. I am not perfect and I am also just me, it's important to me to understand other perspectives too. I dont get offended, I dont get angry or take it personally.
I am open to feedback.
HYPOTHETICAL SCENARIOS
Conflict:
If I get frustrated or upset with something you do, I would politely tell you knowing there is a possibility I maybe misunderstood something. If there was an issue, then we would revisit it later when we are both in a better place to discuss. Conflict can be a great opportunity for building closeness
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